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Features
The main selling point of SeekingArrangement is that they don’t beat around the bush. Instead of pretending to “just want to meet new people”, users can clearly define their needs and goals. Thus the member base is divided into “Sugar Daddies” (successful men looking for attractive company) and “Sugar Babes” (good looking young females who enjoy expensive gifts and a luxurious lifestyle while meeting wealthy men on a regular basis.
Getting Started
SeekingArrangement promises a swift signup and they keep their word. Besides the basic account credentials, you only need to clarify your gender and standing as either a sugar daddy or sugar baby. The system even provides a brief explanation for those who are unfamiliar with these terms. After these brief steps you are able to immediately access the full site, but bear in mind that this first step only covered 16% of completing your profile. As a special offer, reaching 100% completion within 24 hours rewards sugar lovers with a free attraction boost, not to mention this is a requirement to contact someone. As for the rest of the steps, SeekingArrangement puts larger emphasis on personal details, lifestyle, income and wealth. Appearance and a personal description are displayed as well, but these parts aren’t flashed out that clearly.
Matching System
SeekingArrangement adds an exotic flavor to its matchmaking by widely differentiating the profile structure for Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babes. In case a wealthy but lonely entrepreneur checks out the page of a cheerful young model, he can take note on the girl’s lifestyle expectation, showcasing the minimum amount of earnings needed to meet her interest. On the other end, young ladies see Prince Charming’s treasury level before getting better acquainted. The actual matchmaking is pretty inchoate. On the main page, three groups of recommended profiles appear (featured, new and background-checked), and for a more personalized results a manual search can be conducted with specific filters. The overly simplified approach is conspicuous at the design as well. The clear white background give the site a clean and easy look so that the profiles and their pictures stand out well.
Communication
In terms of communication, Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babes are allowed to piffle or make an arrangement by sending messages or starting a chat session. However, before courting your lovely sugar-princess, you need to fulfill two conditions. First, your profile must be fully finished; otherwise the message bar remains inactive. The other requirement is the premium membership. There is one other way that would guarantee that all attractive women notice you, and that’s none other than the Gift Wishlist. Sugar Babes have access to a huge catalogue of luxurious items from the most renowned jewelry, shoes, bags, perfumes and chocolates from which they can choose their favorites. This list is a more than subtle hint for Sugar Daddies to invest in so that they can make a good impression.
Mobile
SeekingArrangement puts a stellar example on how to make a smartphone-loving Sugar Baby’s dream come true. Most dating sites stop after establishing a mobile-friendly website, and never venture towards the other possibilities. SeekingArrangement has no meaningful website for mobile browsers, but it doesn’t need one: the respective smartphone application is available for both Android and iOS devices. Said application is the perfect addition for busy Sugar Lovers who are always on the go. The system adjusts the layout for easier navigation on touchscreens, and they also got rid of the annoying white spaces from the normal website, thus the profiles feel more compressed and informative, which is also helped by the fact that the profile pictures are now taking up more space for clearer visibility. Besides the visual changes, nothing has changed content-wise, so you won’t miss out on any features.
Pricing
The overall approach of pricing and subscription is one of the biggest pains of SeekingArrangement.com. Although interested parties are allowed to taste the forbidden fruit for free, actually swallowing it would cost you money. In other words: the registration is free, but to make contact you need a premium membership. Upgrading the free profile also means that you can hide your online status and join a date. Still, the actual fees to do so are ridiculously high. Then again, SeekingArrangement goes after a select audience of wealthy people, and besides their profile screening the subscription prices are their best method of staying exclusive for the happy few. As for actual numbers, one month of membership costs $69.95 per month, they charge $59.95 per month for three months ($179.85 in total), while choosing the semi-annual plan is $49.95 per month, which is billed in one easy payment of $299.75.
Customer Service
Very few can be said about the customer service of SeekingArrangement. There is an FAQ where they preemptively answer the most pressing questions, and you are able to submit a ticket or report someone with a more pressing issue. What deserves the spotlight is the authentication and encryption system. SeekingArrangement wishes to avoid the fate of Ashley Madison , thus they utilize an encryption system to protect the identity and personal data of their users. Furthermore, they closely inspect all freshly created accounts and constantly monitor the site for signs of abuse, cheating, upfront money begging or any other unruly behavior. The site has a blog section with regular updates, and you can follow them on Facebook, Twitter, or watch their entries about the Sugar Baby University on YouTube.
Bottom Line
SeekingArrangement started off with an interesting premise: what if you join a network where everyone can honestly state their intention without evasiveness and cheap lies? This part works well, as wealthy men and attractive women can agree on the exact limitations of their relationship without others shunning them. However, other than being an upfront “sugar daddy site”, SeekingArrangement doesn’t bring much extra to the table. The design is very clean without bells and whistles to keep the focus on the profile pages with their pictures. The registration is quick and the profile menu promises a bonus upon quick completion, but it could still bear some extra customization options. The subscription fee is exceptionally high, though it would still not scratch the wallet of a real sugar daddy. The actual service you get from SeekingArrangement for this amount of money is diminishingly low, though you are guaranteed to only encounter truthful and relevant profiles due to SeekingArrangement’s thorough member screening. The site and its apps provide a straightforward and safe online environment without any fuss, and above all it stays true to its roots and its exclusive audience.
Positives
- Member background verification
- No fuss, true to its name
- Mobile apps
- Clean, simple design
Negatives
- Not very feature-rich
- Extremely pricey
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Dave says
I just terminated my membership to SA after being a loyal member for over 3 years. It was great in the beginning, with high quality women seeking more out of life. Unfortunately, ever since Backpage was shut down, the prostitutes and scammers have flocked to this site. Don’t be fooled, SA is now a prostitution website. This is why Apple banned them from having an app. If you’re looking for a hooker, this is a great place. If you’re looking for a SD/SB arrangement, you’ll have to look somewhere else.
Rupert Holmes says
This is a negative review, so I don’t think it will be published among all the happy talk on this site.
Here it goes anyway: I’ve been a relatively happy member for nearly 2 year. Normally, a month-to-month subscriber, I decided to renewal for 3 months with the holiday bonus I got from work. Well, two days later, I got a “Warning and Permanent Suspension” notice from SA. And no refund for unused time.
The email said “I was soliciting sex on the site too many time”. First of all, Du-uh?! So SA is shocked that I am looking for sex on their website? Now, what did Captain Renault say in “Casablanca”, “I am shocked—shocked—to find that gambling is going on in here! ” Secondly, in the 2 years, on and off on the this site, I never got single warning or complaint for SA management. And it I say, they are keeping my entire $210 payment for 2 days of uses? It’s been a week since my last email to them to politely as for a prorated and refund my used time. I don’t hold out any hope, they are registered in Hong Kong-an communist country with lacks consumer rights laws. And the single owner is a dorky Asian guy. Is SA a scram? I don’t know. They must know, I can away sign-up again with a different credit card.
There was been a few high profile murders in the past of SB’s and they don’t want to appear to be a front from promoting prostitution, so somebody occasion has to be sacrificed, so why not the suckers that pays way in advance.
Another thing, SA tries so hard to avoid the appears of money for sex, that they actively teach SB that sex is not involved, that you can make money just by chatting and selling pictures. So one girl, I was chatting with last week was shocked that I wanted to meet her before I give her the $300 she want, via me making a deposit in her bank. I of course refused. She is probably the one that complained and got me suspended. And so it goes.
Peter says
PROS:
1) It’s easy to use, and works on a smart phone.
2) There seem to be mostly real women on this site – at least I received believable responses from many users I contacted.
CONS:
1) it’s fairly expensive for men, and free for women. That leads to women who aren’t serious, and men who feel used.
2) The site doesn’t have enough staff, so approving a profile can take weeks. Every change needs to be approved….
3) The search engine is flakey. You can’t do an exhaustive search
4) You can get your account suspended. Mine was, for sending sexually explicit messages. (Seriously? On an adult site?) I’m still not sure what I did, because I actually didn’t send any explicit messages. There is no recourse.
5) Sugar Babies are given totally unreasonable expectations by the signup process.
Tony says
This site is shameful in regards of putting in the mind of women that men will just give you money for no reason because for example they deserve it. Prostitution is the oldest business in the world and the creator of the website exploits it. Then has the nerve to create activities like he’s Hugh Hefner. I enjoy the opportunity to meet attractive women without the bar scene but I refuse to be treated like I for a women on this site to spend time she has to be compensated.
That mentality of entitlement and finding loopholes at the expense of women that in some cases have made mistakes out the gate or don’t have guidance to latch on to the promises made by the site that men just throw their money is straight pimping. And to take advanced of older men is just as bad.
L says
good site. I’m 54, not married, no kids, and a fit guy. clicked with a total hottie on this site, who is less than half my age. She’s now 24. 5’9″ 125lbs, killer long legs with tiny ankles, 6pack abs, DD chest, and is a pro fitness bikini competitor. Who really likes to screw. She’s worth every bit of the considerable, that I give to her. Both of us are completely happy and well into year number two. Mutually faithful, no condoms, no STD’s, BCP, so no pregnancies…..great sex 8-10 times per month. Hang out at each other’s place about 25% of any given month. Enjoy each other’s company then, but have separate lives 75% of the time and each of us appreciate the time apart also, to be able to freely go about our school/work, sports and individual interests. We’re very encouraging of each other in every way. Could not have a better sb/gf. What guy wouldn’t like a ‘ten’ to date and screw, but still have 75% of his own life free for sports and work, etc.. And not a bank breaker, portfolio still growing. Without the blah and malaise of a typical marriage, instead we constantly seek to please each other, and never take each other for granted. If ever it stops working, the exit won’t be hard, as we’ve both gotten what we wanted. None of that messy divorce stuff. But at present, happily there is no end in sight….here on month 14, it’s better than ever!
so good site….met on the site, quickly wrote a few times, then eagerly met in person, relationship full on two days later. all in less than a month, and a month’s membership. that’s a good site that helped pave the way that quickly. Success though is ours to own…..we were clear and up front with each other right from the start. Figured out in our first letters to each other and our first 30 minutes together in person, exactly what each other wanted and what each other’s expectations were. Two people were then simply happy to give to the other, exactly what we were both looking for. That’s a mature intelligent 23-24 year old, who could/can do just that. chemistry and generosity then just took over from day one, and we’ve ridden it now for 14 months, and counting….
no1knows247 says
I had my doubts about websites such as seeking arrangements because there is just so many scam websites (i.e. horney matches) out there where many of the profiles are just robots to get you to sign up. Then once you sign up, you never hear from those that are “interested” in you.
You can some times tell which profiles are real and which ones are not by using reverse image search such as google’s own service and see if someone just ripped off someone else’s photo online. Also, take time to read over their profile. If they mention some thing more local (i.e. location, shops, landmarks, events, etc…) then the chances of them being real is much higher.
Getting back to the point. I’ve met a few SB’s via seeking arrangements. I think some one had already mentioned that the strange part of meeting SB’s is that every one of their expectations are different. Some ask for $1k per meet up and they won’t do anything intimate until several dates later. Other’s ask for $1-2k per month. So it really depends on who you meet and what your chemistry is with the SB. If you are an a-hole, they will probably ask for more. If they take a liking to you, you have a higher chance of them asking for something more manageable.
A tip about using SA: If you are confident with your game, use the mobile app and sign up for a weekly pass (only on the mobile app). I think it’s like $35. It shouldn’t take most that long to make an arrangement. The monthly membership fee is like $79. If you can get find an arrangement within a week, you’ll save a few bucks.
SA is expensive, but at least so far, the results I get from using their service is real. So paying a few bucks more is fair in my opinion.
XX says
guys this SA site is yet another scam once you paid for the premium membership they can permenantly suspense you with any explanation. be warned.
BrownUnicorn says
Honestly don’t know what to say about this site, I joined SA few years ago. Although, I have been on and off it until recently I decided to stay on and actually find something genuine and real! Being a 23 year old black girl I found that most of the men didn’t even want to date a black girl or would put on their profiles “no black girls or women of colour” First off I felt really disappointed as you’d think men of class should know better. I had to approach or send messages to almost every guy I thought was nice but I had some really rude statements and assumptions of me being a golddiger or an escort which I am far from. I am a 23 year old Accounting student, I have never slept with a man for money, I was actually on that site to find one suitable arrangement with no more than just one guy. I wasn’t exactly expecting thousands of pounds either, just a little support every now and then with my studies and looking for a little support and besides I would hate to depend on a man for money for the rest of my life. You also have people there looking for real relationships when it clearly states that the site is for people seeking an arrangement! I have now decided to come off SA as I have had no luck, all I have received is racist comments and men who made me feel less of myself not being the typical blonde blue eyed barbie they are after. I am real and will never scam anyone(who does that anyway on a site like that) I don’t even have the energy for that.
I don’t get it I really don’t, how I see a lot of the guys saying they don’t want escorts or prostitutes etc but when someone genuine approaches them they either ignore you or throw negative comments at you. I really wish I could have met someone nice and had a successful and simple arrangement, I wasn’t looking for anything serious and I never asked anyone for ££ upfront never!! Anyway it is sad for us genuine girls who actually are after a smooth arrangement. It just upsets me that I have wasted all this time and so much investment put towards it and all I got back was total discrimination, I am sure there are some good guys there but it really takes a lot of time and effort to get hold of one. I have been studying my ass off for my exams with no support from family/friends nothing then to come on a site were people assume you are a golddiger or an escort because of the colour of your skin…now common that is degrading and really sad I must say. I come from a well mannered home and I respect every person and I totally look past an individual’s skin tone..I see beyond that because I believe beauty comes from the inside, A lot of people tell me I have a good heart and that I am too soft. I guess because of this I have been taken advantage of many times. I wish you all the best in your search but I guess it’s time for me to move on from this.
SugarChris says
This is extremely pricey for someone from the US, if this site claims to be international, pricing for other markets have to be thought accordingly, its way beyond affordable for premium and free members dont even get to see one message, useless website actually.
James says
I have been on Seeking Arrangement and other similar sites on and off for a couple of years. I think SA is the best sugar daddy site because I established the most quality arrangements off this site. I usually only pay for a month of the regular membership fee because I usually develop a contact list of at least 10 females I could choose from to be my baby. I think that is probably the reason the membership fees are so high. A real sugar daddy on any sugar daddy site does not need more than a month to meet a sugar baby. Hell, a real sugar daddy can meet a sugar baby in up to 72 hours on these sites. I have done it. What I find quite interesting is the different levels of expectation of the women. The women who want a substantial amount look no different from the women who want a minimal amount. I always wondered why would a man who worked hard for his money would overpay for the same experience. I also find it interesting that some women talk down to guys they think are “salt daddies”. The hard reality for some of them is a “salt daddy” may be the best man they ever meet in their life. There are people from all types of backgrounds and income levels on this site. I do think a daddy can meet a baby on this site if he is serious. All babies aren’t looking for the super rich guy. Even a guy with a regular job who may have some extra spending money can meet a young beautiful woman on this site. You just need a mix of decent looks, good personality, funny, smart, and a gift of gab. There will be a fall off on sugar daddies sites in the future because a lot of guys are either just going to other countries to meet younger women , meeting them in their local area, or just meeting them on free social media sites.
James says
It seems like most of the comments are from one guy using several different names to post his dislike of the site. Seeking Arrangement and other sugar daddy sites aren’t like regular dating sites. If you are looking for a regular relationship you should go to one of the regular dating sites. The main focal point of sugar daddy sites are to connect older men with younger women. The arrangements are what you make them. Everyone is an adult or at least over 18 on the site. The concept of a man spoiling a female was not created by these sites. It is a tradition that begin with humanity. Sugar daddy sites just cut through all of the formalities. A lot of the men on the site are married and middle age. That is not something the average college age female is looking for in a mate, but since some may be broke or lack guidance. They are open to establishing some type of relationship with an older man for guidance and financial support. He usually gets what he wants from the arrangement.
Wkrpk says
It’s crazy to hear all of these negative comments about the website. I’ve used the site for about three years and have found several successful sd/sb relationships. The women are beautiful and very real. And believe me my standards are very high. I have found only a few occasions where I encountered a catfish or girl soliciting to sell pictures or webcam. It just doesn’t happen. Yes, it’s $70/month for men but it’s well worth the price, and if you can’t afford the fee you should not be on the site anyway. Overall SA is very professional; they are responsive to requests of user abuse and they screen every photo to make sure it is legit. SA is a top notch website if you are looking for a non-traditional discreet relationship.
Matthew says
I like the site. Sure, some of the women want you to pay them a lot of many to talk to them, but there are others who want more. Obviously, you have to have money to spend. Half of the women on the site are average looking, and the rest are overweight, and/or have children. I met a few women that were good, so I am fine. You have to be cautious and READ THERE PROFILE. Don’t just talk to them because they have a pretty picture. I will try out the site again, but first I have to see if the sugar baby I am with is long lasting.. I will probably try it again in 1 year. Maybe more.
Henry says
There are very low percentage of quality women on any of these arrangement type of online website. This one is the most popular due to Google Exec Forrest Hayes death Fall 2013. The media had given SeekingArrangement prime time spot for airing the news of Forrest Hayes death. That is how I first heard of it. I find most of the women on this site has mental issues and some have criminal history of all kinds Most of these women refused to acknowledge that they are prostitutes. I came on here to look for one. I can view their photos before meeting them and most aren’t even good looking and not worth the budget they are asking for. And many had given birth so why should I paid so much money for loose p*ssies. They are asking for from 4K to 7K a month in exchange for 3 to 4 times sex per week. They are prostitutes that you can date them out and have an arrangement of how many sexual encounters per week. Also you have to pay for everything when you date them out on top of what their monthly budget. I don’t think it is worth the money. These prostitutes are having more than one sexual relationship with two or more men at the same time. I don’t see how this can work for anyone that is afraid of STDs, HIV, herpes, etc. I kept having to dump them due to poor hygiene and wanting more money than the original agreement. What the heck I never kissed any of htem because they are prostitutes so how can Brandon advertised those whores as girlfriends. Grilfriends you can kiss them and it is usually an exclusive relationship. None of these whores worked out because they are whores. So I am off this site. Those whores are here for money and they are dreamers. Most talk about how one day they can find a very rich guy to marry them????? Hello Hookers???? You women are just sex toys for men and they aren’t interested in marry you if they are that rich. No rich men want to be seen with an ex hooker. This is something that rich men find very low class. They only want to fuck hookers and they probably will not want to be seen with you in their cities or nearby. They date you in distance citites where no one can see them with you. They are embarrass of being seen with you…………… So think again of your unrealistic dreams of finding someone wanting to marry a hooker for real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just met a girl not from here, but from a dating site and it is working out way betta than here. My current relationship is real and I don’t have to pay any allowances to her. We are having great sex and I can kiss her and lick her p*ssy. She is wholesome and clean. You can find them here on SeekingArrangement.com. The relationship on this site is fake and I realized that. What a waste of money to spend time with career prostitutes.
sugarbaby says
I perceive so MUCH hate and FRUSTRATION from you. I can only imagine that you must be some 50-70 old dude living on social security and believing that you are entitled to a 20 yr old body for free.
Who are vex about women wanting sugar daddies…
My dude, if you’re too broke for an SB why the FUCK don’t you do what all the other broke dudes do which is to just find an affair with a normal person. You know like Norma at your local pub who is divorced.
Like I don’t get the salt daddy obsession to ‘scam’ SB’s if u aren’t buying what the SB’s are selling or into the concept or too broke for it why not just…..leave it alone?
Move on with your life?
These girls clearly see themselves as a luxury experience
When I was broke I didn’t go into Tom Ford walkabout how I can scam them I took my ass to Primark my dude.
Like do you realize how sick it is that you have men in their 40’s 50’s and 60’s who honestly believe they are entitled to a 20 year old girls body.
These men legit sitting plotting how they can scam a young woman out of sex. They could easily hop to their local bar and find a woman similar to them but like predators they’ve decided they are entitled to young beautiful women and will take them by all means.
Like it’s one thing when college dudes are doing ‘game’ to get fellow students but who told you as a grown ass 50 year old that you deserve a young woman just because ? Like who exactly told you this lie.
Where does a man of that age get the belief that he is entitled to a young woman’s body to the extent that he sits on the net all day plotting.
We need to sit back and analyse this because it’s perverse, deranged and predatory.
Like at what point do you decide ‘fuck the mutual beneficial I just want the girls body’ and in what correlation is this to when you’ve got men snatching girls off the street because they’ve watched them and decided that’s what they want.
Tbh I think salt daddies is a ‘kind’ term for these people. They’re predators. They hide behind sugaring but these are men who if sugaring didn’t exist they’d find other means to gain access to the young women they so desperately crave.
Sugar babies are so busy calling out ‘salt daddies’ they don’t realise that this is a much heavier problem.
It’s not about money it’s about entitlement. And it’s not a joking matter.
When the sugar sites first emerged I feared the day these sorts would make their way there.
And it’s happening.
A ‘salt daddy’ is a man who is too broke to be a ‘sugar daddy’ he is broke but he is essentially harmless. He is just broke.
These men aren’t just ‘salt’ daddies as they acknowledge they are broke but have decided they want to fuck the girls anyway because they feel they are entitled to.
I’ll never understand that level of entitlement to another human beings body.
It’s very, very dangerous.
And I really wish people began acknowledging it as such.
Take away the ‘sugar’ world and you realise how fucked these men are. I don’t even have such entitlement to bags I can’t afford talk less of humans.
This reminds me of a quote I read from a dude who had gone to Asia to find a bride. He said in America the girls are arrogant and if you want a 10 you need to be rich, smart, funny and young. He went to Asia because he thought that there he could get a 10 just by being a white American dude. (aka he can’t afford to pay for a 10 but still feels entitled to one, so flew somewhere his money is worth more, and where women have lesser rights)
I wish I could find the quote, but he was basically surprised by the fact that beautiful young smart women would rather date beautiful young smart men than fall at his crusty old white feet. He was repulsed and shocked at the suggestion he date a woman his own age. He genuinely believed that every man is entitled to a hot young ‘10′.
That’s what most media teaches boys. That no matter how old, ugly, fat, broke, stupid and boring they grow to be, they are still entitled to a hot young woman.
Brien says
So if you are missed the whole point of SA,why do you complain? Do you research first.
Larry says
This site should be called SeekingProstitutes.Com It is no dating site. It is where 90% of prostitutes get their businesses from. It is a site where you meet plenty of women that offer sex for high prices. It is like what other men had described it as. It is an arrangement to date and have sex with prostitute for a fix amount of money weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, etc. The arrangement is how many time you get to have sex with them for the fixed fixed budget amount. You can pay more for more pay per play activities. I think this website is online prostitution with store front as a dating website. .
Yuk!!! I tried it out for 3 months and 90% of the women I met are either full time or part-time prostitutes. The students are part-time prostitutes whereas single moms can be full-time prostitutes.
Asianusername says
Hello!
You know it’s a sugar daddy/sugar mommy to sugar baby website right? I’m just saying. If you want to really date, why don’t you turn off your laptop and go socialize?
CollegeGirl says
Well go to EHarmony or a legit dating site with women your age. The men on these sites are old and looking for a young hot girl they can get in bed with no benefits…a college girl can meet someone her age for that! Most of these younger girls come to sites like this because they need alittle extra help with finances. I agree that there should be some type of connection but dating..no thank you.
James says
Why join the site if it isn’t the type of dating experience you are looking for? There are other well known websites for just a dating relationship.
Joe says
Most women on this site are very materialistic. They want things that they cannot afford and they become prostitutes. Many single moms are on this site having an arrangement with mostly married men to have sex. Who is taking care of their kids while they are working as sluts day and none for hours?? The sad thing to say is their kids will grow up thinking what their moms doing for a living is normal. I just hope the ones that have daughters will not follow their mom’s foot steps to becoming a prostitute when they are of legal age……………… I think I met around 70% women that care about themselves more than they care for their own children. Some women leave their kids with relatives while others leave them at home alone. I took a few prostitutes from MissTravel.com and this website and all they think is about themselves. I ask some of these women aren’t they even concern about their kids when they are gone for weeks with me on trips? None are concern and worry They wanted to go on trips and enjoy their lives and either leave their kids with relatives such as their own parents, ex husband’s parents, their ex husbands or with the Johns who may have fathered their children.
Many of these prostitutes have children from a different men. This is the kind of women you find on Sugar Daddy Websites I think I am tire of it. I been on these sites for 2 years and now I am ready for having a real relation with a quality women from Match.Com, etc. I am finish with Sugar daddy websites.
Approx 75% of these women are here to look for rich men to marry. What rich man is here to look for a prostitute for a wife????? I was here just to look for sex and that is it I am done and now I am ready for a relationship with a quality women. This site helped me to realize the differences between whores and quality women. Most whores are classless, love to have fun, spending money is all they want, uneducated, low IQs, and have ridiculous expectations. A woman of quality will never spread her legs for money and usually do not have ridiculous expectations. They are from good families, mostly from families with good moral values and most do hold at least a college degree.
Let me make this story short, most of these women you can only be with at most maybe a month to 1 than you have to dump them for another one . Most up their prices all the time and they don’t keep within the agreed budget
Jeff says
I love to f*ck whores and I am single. There are no strings attach I have a busy schedule and these whores help to relief me when I am horny several times a week. Thanks for having this prostitution website Brandon Wade. This made it easy for us men that don’t want to be caught as Johns on the streets.
Most women 92% are prostitutes because the arrangement is to have sex with them. There is budget and the agreement is how many sexual encounters you get for that set budget. I had some whores that went over budget so I dump them. There are plenty to get on this site, so don’t let your whore set the rules.
My good friend call his whores mistresses, but how can that be. His whores are having sex with other men and so is he . I am having sex with 3 different whores from SeekingArrangement and they are also having sex with other men on and off the SeekingArrangement. It is a place where both women and men have multiple sex partners. I am single and wouldn’t recommend this to married men When your wives find out, it would for sure end your marriages This is fun for me, but as for married men, please don’t ruin your marriage for having sex with whores. If you must, you should get a divorce first. Most of these women aren’t marraige material or someone you can find a long term relationship with They are whores that just want money in exchange for countless men entering their pussies. I never kiss them or do any oral sex with them. I just fuck them and they wash me in the bathrub and shower. I always use a condom because most of the members on this site have multiple partners. For the whores, the more men the higher the income. And it is tax free!!!!
Dan says
What women expect from these sites?? They are whores and that is what I am looking for. For me it is easier Because I can see how they look before meeting them, but most post pictures that has been photo shop or pictures that is them from 10 or more years ago. Many lied about their ages. There are ones that had plastic surgery that removed 15 years of their true ages. Most are bimbos, so I don’t care. i just want to fuck tthem. Most men know this is a place where you shop for whores/prositutues,hookers, call girls or whatever you want to call them. I am not a super rich man either, but what super rich man would want to have a long relationship with a prostiute??? NOt me. I fuck as many as possible on this site just for fun. I am not looking to be a Richard Gere taking Julia Roberts as a soulmate now. I just look for the young fuckable ones. Most aren’t pretty, but man I just fuck their bodies and I don’t even see their faces in the dark.
Donna says
I forgot to mention that most men lie about their age, with a margin of 10/20/30 or more years. You never know what you’re getting until you meet in person. They also post fake pictures. I’m talking about the men now. They use model pictures of guys they wish they looked like 100 years ago.
I already catched a few doing this.
Not to mention the lies about their net worth, 80 million dollars could be just 80 dollar. Just imagine?
Dont take a word from these men, talk is cheap. Thats what I learned from this website.
They will try to treat you like a business, like they hiring a plumber.
I’ve had one guy from that site trying to lie to me, pretending to be millionaire then I found him on facebook, found out he was still married and his wife has 2 jobs, nothing about his facebook made him appear rich. He claims to be divorced on SA. Pathetic really.
And how about their fashion sense since they love to tell you how much they enjoy luxury. Most of these guys didnt update their wardrobe since 1981 (after their first married). And still dont want to invest in a good mirror.
Even the younger ones 20y to 30 dress like their grandpa.
Most of these losers want a girl who is already kept by someone else so they dont have to invest. They are cheap.
Gromit says
The main problem I see with Sugar daddy websites, is there no accountability, if there was a rating system where members could rate other members after a date, you would quickly see who was real and who is a scammer. I’m new to the sugar dating scene, so my experience is limited. I’m always upfront with potential suberbaby’s, I let them know upfront I’m married and what i can afford to pay for there attention. Some are accepting of this, others not. Another complaint I have is the length of time it takes to get a response from these women, I messages some and have to wait days for a response, if at all.
Ian says
This site is a fraud. Approx. 85% of women on this site are prostitutes. Why do I need to pay a fee to meet mostly prostitutes??????
Some women say they meet mostly ugly and cheap men on this site, but I meet mostly ugly, low class, low IQ women that thinks they are “Beautiful” Some women just don’t get it. We men aren’t going to go for women that breaks an agreement Most ask for how much they want per month and what the number of sexual intercourse it includes These women are so vein and most are not good looking but plaster their faces with way too mich makeup……..
Don’t waste your money because this is a site for men to date and have sex with prostitutes.
Definition of prostitution money/goods in exchange for sex and that is what is going on all these online prostitution websites.
Tommy says
Why are most of you men complaining about women on the site being prostitutes when you are looking for a woman to pay for sex? You do not want prostitutes yet you want to pay women for sex?
Vanessa says
I had been a member of SA since 2007 until today. I am NOT an escort, I have met many SD from here and had several successful relationships. I go to log on and my account is suspended, they claim one of my photo’s was on an escort site, they refuse to give me link to that I can find the person who stole my photo’s and refuse to restore my account. They claim no escorts however they are the biggest prostitution ring around and the only one’s punished are the ones who play by the rules. The quality gentlemen don’t go near this site, and as I’m finding out now, there are reasons the quality ladies won’t go near it either. Don’t waste your time and energy, you can contribute to the site, respond to blogs and use the site as it’s intended and if you aren’t a whore they remove you for unbiased accusations. If that is how they treat their longest clients I promise it’s isn’t worth becoming invested in for any reason.
Aaron says
This is more of a scam warning than anything. There’s a girl in the San Jose,CA area that goes by Flora & Cats. She’s actually a cam girl that goes by flora as well, on myfreecams. She used to put the cam stuff on her profile but SA made her take it off. Anyway, she tries to get you to go to her cam room, and really tries to get you to give her money by being sweet, sexy and telling lies. It’s fraud basically. She got $1500 out of me by making a LOT of promises that she eventually admitted were all false. She said, “it’s my job to trick men into thinking I like them so they’ll give me money”. And good god is she good at it. I believed her, don’t make the same mistake I did. I was a total idiot, but learned a hard lesson.
Rafael says
I was on the site in 2008, met a very pretty woman 21 years old, after several misfires with other women, and we began an arrangement which lasted five years until she graduated. We saw each other every week mostly. It was a relationship with great chemistry. Her allowance was minimal, and she was pleased with that because it was assistance, not full maintenance. After that relationship ended, I waited for a while, and then returned back. I started another relationship, but it only lasted a couple of months, incompatible schedules, again minimal expectation, but really nice beautiful gal who understood how an arrangement can work. After it ended, I continued searching, had several interviews, and finally found another one, the current one, which looks very promising. Twice a week, multi-hours, minimal expectation.
Joey says
This site in incredible. But it is not for everyone.
I have met some very smart, ambitious, attractive young women who were looking for an intelligent, successful man. We have formed relationships that were enjoyable for both.
Complaints seem to come from two issues. First, is expectations. Some young women think a man will pay them money for them to show up at a restaurant and look pretty. What they don’t understand is that a sugar baby is a mistress. That means there is a personal relationship between the couple, and often the man is married and often he will provide financial assistance. The key word is “relationship”.
Second is that there are people who misuse the site. Prostitutes and Johns will show up sometimes, just like on any other site. When I have come across one, I have reported her and her profile is promptly deleted by the site.
To young women who are tired of immature boys and wish to have a boyfriend who can take care of or assist her, while allowing her to have complete freedom without the strings of a traditional relationship, this is perfect. To a young woman looking for someone her own age, with the possibility of getting married, this is not your site.
But like anywhere, there are frogs among the princes. And don’t say you are a “princess”, just be you.
Liz says
I’ve been on and off the site as a SB for a few years now. Mostly off of the site. There is probably 5-10% of real sugar daddies on there. Now there aren’t many. The guys on there are pigs not gentlemen, they lie, and only think about themselves. People actually need help and they treat people like crap. Every guy on there is cheap and the new guys don’t know what they’re doing or are looking for a prostitute. Lots of creepy, crazy, strange, weird guys on there. I was almost raped about 2 weeks ago. Site management does not take action on any sugar daddies and there are a lot of fakes and horrible guys on there.
I’ve had a few good arrangements in the past but they never lasted that long. Also the site management and customer support is very slow and they always deny photos because they think the photo isn’t you. I always had my real photos up there and they keep denying my photos saying they’re not real. How can I provide them authenticity? I paid for a membership for 1 month and paid with my own card. That should let them know I’m a real person. I had to show them my license. WTF. SO RUDE. They didn’t even apologize. Their whole system is fucked up.
It’s ridiculous. It’s not a great website. I don’t want people knowing I’m on there, even the people that work there. They’re only focused on social media marketing.
Mark Smith says
This site should be called “SleepingArrangement” because it is all about prostitution.
I did not have good experience on this site and will not recommend it to any other men.
As someone already posted on other review sites that most of the great reviews are fake. Probably posted by Brandon wade’s Public Representative team to combat against all the real reviews.
The membership is expensive and it is not worth it. Most women on all Brandon Wade’s website services are prostitutes, call girls, whores, sluts, hookers, escorts, hoes, or any word that is used to described women spreading their legs for a living.
There are at least 50% of the women on this site that are single mothers (teenage pregnancies and mostly women that have mental issues, criminal records, etc). Educated women will not used this site to look for men. They can support themselves and this site is filled will over 70% career prostitutes. This site is filled with a bunch of slutty women that want over 5K+ a month . What? They aren’t worth that . A few crazy men may paid these prostitutes what they want. I find it gross that having sex with these women are like having sex with the public toilet. Prostitutes are public toilets where men paid to relief themselves and I sure don’t want my P*nis inside a public toilet. I don’t want diseases and it is not worth it. I am taking this really slow with dating sites because you can find more quality women than an online prostitution site . This site made a lot of money of men with phony advertisement and fake review.
Spirit Greywolf says
Mark – sounds like you might have been meeting people like Donna just a couple of posts below 🙂
I have no affiliation with the owner of that site or anyone affiliated with ANY site for that matter – and I have had great luck. You get out of it what you put into it – and speaking as one who has met plenty of women and heard stories of what the guys are like, I’m embarrassed to call myself a guy…
Your thoughts about no educated women not using the site makes me kind of laugh, actually. I have met plenty of educated, very capable women along with kinds you describe. Of course on this venue you’re apt to see ALL kinds – but that’s actually part of the fun. Weeding through the flakes, fakes, crazies and those that just want you to be a walking, breathing ATM (where the walking and breathing parts are strictly optional) by having inexpensive coffee dates at any of the millions of Starbucks has been a blast.
Sorry to hear you didn’t have good luck. For what I am looking for, Match, Plentyoffish and the other sites are literally useless. For you though the search may be better and I wish you luck!
Spirit_Greywolf
Hayley says
Hi Mark,
I’m 21, a university student and about to graduate a bachelor of engineering – so I guess you could say I’m intelligent.
I have used this site before and had amazing results. No, I am not an escort or pregnant or any of the other undesired situations you listed.
I’m slim, 5’11 tall, blonde and can hold a conversation.
I think you have run into some bad luck, because I can assure you there are some good ones out there :).
Hayley.
Joey says
It sounds like Mark works for the competition.
I don’t work for the site.
I have found girlfriends on SA. The one I have right now is 25, never been pregnant, has no criminal record, is getting her PhD in chemistry, and had only slept with two people before in her life.
My previous girlfriend on SA had just graduated from one of the nation’s top universities in biology and was getting ready to attend pharmacy school the following fall. She had not even been successful in intercourse before although she had tried twice before, so hardly a slut or a prostitute, and certainly no criminal.
I have met nursing students, medical students, law students, sorority girls, the vice president of a university student government, undergraduates and graduate students… some very educated, highly attractive, and ambitious young women who know what they want, and that does not include a traditional relationship at this point in their lives.
Abby says
This is a reply to multiple post for the guys who keep saying “these girls don’t look too good for what they asking for” that’s the most ignorant statement I’ve seen aside from the whole prostitute nonsense. I’ve been on the site on and off and men message me or other woman about “sexy pics” or say “im looking for very descret relations” and say they can afford 200 per meet….obviously these men are looking to skip traditional sugar daddy standards for a quick fuck but have nerve to complain?? How does that make sense? Then you have profiles who say “no ethnic woman” Lolol but yet complain when there’s a white woman who’s older or have more weight? WAKE UP if we wanted to find a older rich guy to fuck for free it’s not hard so I don’t get why guys on this site act like their dick is gold. Basically in these salty dudes head I’m supposed to go out to a bar “possibly” have sex (meaning that’s exactly what he wants) then go home straight after FOR FREE???? Lmfaooo that’s real cray cray. If that’s the case they clearly these men are just trying to avoid the wine and dine part when you meet a woman in real life., attempting to take advantage of a fresh body to fuck for LITTLE TO NOTHING and its disgusting. Let’s not forget picture collectors who say “send me a pic so I know your real” eventhough theirs profile pics on the site Lolol these guys need to grow up and go to backpage with that bullshit
BurnedinBaltimore says
Beware of sashaann288 in Baltimore–scammer deluxe–
Donna says
I’ve been on that site for a few months and had a few dates in London. I was very selective about the men that I met and even those turned out to be horrible people, the kind of guys you would never talk to under any circumstance. The guys were all horrible dressed and ugly. while they claim to be very good looking and young. Yeah right, go talk to your donkey. They all seem to have mental issues, sex pills junkies, alcoholics and psychos. If you want to meet these type of men then the website is for you. I can’t deal with that, I’m too honest, I tell them the truth and laught at their faces. I was really expecting upscale men, because thats how they were representing themselves online. when I met them I was so dissapointed, one guy in the London erea under the username PeterR (his real name is Patrick and he’s an alcoholic) claims to be 44y but I think he’s at least 150. He thinks he can hide his wrinkles under his beard. Idiot. claimed to be so attractive, generous, with houses around the world and what do I see when he turns up? Corky Thatcher look-a-like. So embarrassed to be seen with him in public, people were staring at us and laughing. He sleeps whith a big knife next to his bed. He was drunk and started talking too much. according to his profile he’s separated, but thats a lie, he’s still married (who marries them?) and lives with his wife in one house but separate beds (maybe thats why he has a knife). He has a driver and forces you to use his driver, therefore he knows exactly where you are, insecure bastard! What a waste of time, I went to the hairdresser before meeting. He cant even wash his mouth, he had a big white circle around his lips, poor hygiene and stinky. Girls, always ask for payment for a date, this way at least your time wont be wasted. Because most of these guys will milk the sh*t out of your patience. Chanceless bastards, time wasters, ugly motherf#ckers. No wonder most of these guys turn out to be blackmailed and extorted by their sugerbabies. They are all promise but cant even compesate you for your time. I was expecting much more. Girls make sure you get compensated for your time on the first date or at least he should give you expensive gifts when first meeting, because every loser can fake generosity behind his computer. Money talks anything else walks.
There are some millionaires on that site but they aren’t sugardaddies, they are too cheap to be one. Nobody wants to date them. They hate gold diggers like me, they write that on their page. But do you really think that a beautiful girl like me would talk to any of these losers for free? No man, give me at least a Rolex, if you want me to acknowledge your ugly face. Most of these men dont own a mirror, they have no idea how ugly they are. They must be really stupid to believe the lies those hookers are feeding them. Im not a cheap hooker, I’m a gold digger. Thats different. I want gold, I want the best for myself. None of these guys can even hold a candle next to me. They are dumb, they have no style and they are boring. They think they’re funny and smart but the truth is I can make so many jokes about them, all day. I feel sorry for their families, they are an embarrassment.
Beautiful things like me are expensive, and everything comes with a price tag. And I will never lower my standards for a cheap old bastard. You can meet much better men in real life at upscale places, good looking guys that are real millionaires and who were real generous I met in real life and not from a website.
I wish this site had better men. I would rate the men on seekingarrangement a ZERO.
Spirit Greywolf says
Donna – like I shared in other reviews here I have to say, you really do get out of the site what you put into it.
You said some things I really took issue with, such as;
“But do you really think that a beautiful girl like me would talk to any of these losers for free? No man, give me at least a Rolex, if you want me to acknowledge your ugly face. ” and
“…they have no idea how ugly they are. They must be really stupid to believe the lies those hookers are feeding them. I’m not a cheap hooker, I’m a gold digger.”
I think I can say within the realm of reason that you decidedly do not have the right attitude for this site. Some of us are looking for someone to call a companion – both a lover and a friend. Your admission of simply being a gold digger is an attitude that guys like me can spot a mile away – and successful men like me would avoid you and all the drama you bring to the table like a bad habit. We see someone like you and run. If all we’re looking for is “eye-candy” we could just as easily use an escort service that specializes in placing women with specific knowledge and class to take to parties. You do not come across as one of those cultured or refined women.
All of us – including you – simply want to find those that accept us. Calling us “ugly” and “stupid” actually makes you look very shallow and vain.
Making statements like “Beautiful things like me are expensive, and everything comes with a price tag.” may work for someone who has the kind of good looks befitting a magazine model – where you have a beauty that guys daydream about – but rest assured with your attitude that as soon as you open your mouth you dispel all imagination of what you’re about – and reality hits the guys on the head like an anvil.
I mean okay – other than the fact you might be “hot” by male standards – what else do you offer? Being an SB is a two way street. Just sitting there and looking pretty doesn’t cut it. I know tons of “hot” women – many of whom I wouldn’t give the time of day to let alone give her a Rolex. Why? Because they share the same “what have you done for me lately” attitude. The ones that truly pique my curiousity are ones I can grow with too – to share experiences with that make us both want to be better people. If I want just “hot” and no real substance I would hire an escort, not be on Seeking Arrangement.
So Donna, maybe change your attitude a little? Be a bit more humble. Pay attention to the people around you and _care_ a little more? Be a little less self-centered and more giving, and with the right attitude you might find someone attracted to your inner beauty as well.
Spirit_Greywolf
Grace says
Thank you for saying that, it really needed to be said. Women like these are really ruining the idea of these sites for everyone! I don’t understand why anyone would believe a man would want to spend time around someone with that type of attitude, much less pay for the “privilege”!
Joey says
“Girls, always ask for payment for a date”
You sounds like a prostitute.
I can’t speak to anyone else, but you would never get near me. As a successful man, I only date quality women.
Ian says
Brandon wade owner of these cyberspace website hired Public representative combat negative reviews. Don’t trust any good review about his sites. These sites are compose of over 70% of full-time career prostitutes. I feel so gross to find out that most are prostitutes and I lowered myself to their level and hope God forgives me. My friends and I are single guys and we all had negative experience. most of the women are low quality, uneducated, most lied about their ages, and most do not look average and in fact that are below average with poor hygiene. These sugar prostitutes should be paying us men to date them out. They are such low quality that I know the beautiful loolking gals with photos are fake ads placed there by Brandon Wade’s Employee to lure men to paid for such an expensive service.
AshleyMadison got hacked and was recently exposed for being a fake. Only 12K women worldwide joined this married cheating site. There are over 50 men members worldwide, so gentlemen’s you see why you never get any real contacts from any of these women. The pretty ones aren’t real and the ones that will contact you are fugly looking and that is why no one will chase after them after seeing their face or want to even touch them with a 10 foot pole. This is why they are on AshleyMadison looking for a hard stick to ride on. If any of these women are good looking they wouldn’t have trouble finding someone to fuck them and lavish them with gifts, etc . AshelyMadison had so many fake female accounts that will sent male members emails but they will never meet you because it is all 100% fake. Those beautiful women they used on their website periodically aren’t members. They are just female models with perfect bodies that posted nude on their front webpage. I don’t know if any of you seen the white lady with perfect boobs, small waist, hour glass figure nude with a mask on their front webpage???? That is fake. That is no woman on that website that have a figure like that. Most are ugly women, women that looks like guys, fat women, etc. Ones that you don’t want to get to know let alone want to fuck them…………………………..
garret says
I found this site to be awesome. All sorts of the women in the area reach out to me to chat and see what I want out of the arrangement. You would never get the attention of women like this on other sites, and they send the first message half the time. There is some filtering you have to do, but for even a “minimal” expectation, you can find a SB. I’ve met many who initiated talks of “p4p” (where you pay them per encounter) though I wasn’t interested in that ever. Anyone who got scammed has no idea what they are doing. I won’t even renew this past 1 month because I found someone.
Mamp says
I don’t know what’s the matter with the guy complainers on here, but it’s all on you. Not the site’s fault! This site is a godsend for me – I wasted three years on Match, eHarmony, Okcupid and POF. I’ve been a member for two months now and from the beginning, it was a feast! This week, for example, is typical: dinner dates with entirely new members on Mon, Tues, Wed, Thurs, and lunch on Saturday. Then I’ll see my regular on Sunday! I’m 56 and have dates with girls 18 and 19 years old, mid 20’s and low 30’s. And I’m having to turn many cute ladies away, or put them off into the future because I have kid responsibilities every other week. If I make it through the week, it’ll be a miracle! You literally can have a new date every other night. Yes, there are escorts, and I just got contacted by one (“Hi handsome, let’s get together” lol, she hadn’t even looked at my profile). But there are plenty of MILF’s, single mothers with a kid or two, college students looking to make ends meet, and career-driven young women wanting NSA attachments. You don’t have to spend more than $1000-$1500 a month to have great fun. Many of them don’t want cash; they just want to be spoiled with gifts, clothing, jewelry and fancy nights out on the town. I mainly look at the Negotiable or Minimal requesters, but even some girls asking for a Moderate or Practical level can be bargained down to a PFP arrangement once they meet you, understand your family commitments, and know they will be valued and respected as a woman, not a toy. Guys, if you’re having problems attracting the girls, do a complete makeover of your life, appearance and the profile you put up there. Write intelligent English, be personable, show that you’re generous. Your pictures need to be high quality and reveal a content, confident, Alpha male kind of guy. If you are overweight, lose it! Work out, build some muscle. I put on 10 pounds of muscle this year just drinking protein shakes and doing push ups. So just do it, and stop complaining! You can ignore the hookers and cash queens, there are plenty other types of quality women on SA.
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brian griffin says
SA wasn’t created so you can have lot’s of M&G dates. How are they arrangements?
Ethan says
Not a dating site, but a site where over 85% of the women here on prostitutes. Prostitutes no longer need to wait near street corners, motels, hotels and airports, etc for their Johns . Johns all come online to find them and thanks to the first online pimp Brandon Wade spreading STDs, etc. I am single and was mislead this site is a dating site. All the 50 women I met on this site are prostitutes and they are expensive prostitutes and most none are even worth that kind of money. These hookers asked for 3K to 7K a month of allowance in total of cash, gifts, paying their bills, rents, etc. Crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nikki says
Be aware of an old fart that speaks with a heavy German accent in the silicon valley.
He is gross and has poor hyigene. He has bad breath and that is why I have to make excuses all the time about having long menstrual periods and not feeling well. He has a very small insensititive p*nis . He has sexually problem and never ‘cum’ with sucking and can only do so if he masturbae himself hard and rough. He is on sex pills. He is the scum of the earth cheating on his wife. With all that I know about him no wonder she isn’t screwing him and he has to paid for whores, prostitutes and sugar babies to suck and f*ck him. He is gross and stay away from him. He is very odd, strange and is a big time looser.
Steve 1980 says
This is not a dating website. It is an online prostitution website. Stay away with . There is less than 10% women with any quality of this site. Prostitutes that used to stand on the streets now wait at their desk to get their Johns. I tried it out and met over 15 women and they all are prostitutes. It is money in exchange for sex.
Megan says
Well, there are plenty of dumb guys on this site . The older they are the less of a brain they have. I was able to get plenty of money from these dummies. I faked all my orgasms. If it wasn’t for so much money these guys are paying me I wouldn’t even touch them with with a stick. Most of them are men with mental issues. They want to be out with young women in attempt to feel young again. You kid me??? Some of them have very bad wrinkles on their faces that if they look into the mirror they will break the glass due to their fugliness. Well, thanks for Brandon Wade’s sites, we whores make tons of money. We fake everything . We tell them everything fake and that is what these ugly guys want to here anyway. They want to hear they are so intelligent, adorable, hot , handsome, witty, charming and that they made us “CUM” with joy . I had to fake all my orgasms. Most are horrible in bed and I couldn’t wait for them to be done. I really hate to make love to these guys, but with the ones that are paying me top dollars I have to make love to them before fucking their brains out. It is all for the money and nothing else .
I do feel sorry for their wives not knowing what their husbands are doing behind their backs. I have to be extremely discreet for the local men and we meet far from where each of my clients live. Several of my past and current clients are business men and they come into town frequently from out of state or from other cities (hundreds of miles away) where we get to spent one to two days fucking (with the aid of sex pills for the old guys). The old guys are the ones that pay the most. At any one time I have 3 old guys which sometimes need once or at most sex twice a week. The younger men I have to do them more frequently. I am pretty good in handling my schedule because I do this full-time. I have two clients that can only meet at lunch time Monday thru Friday. I have one that I fuck on Monday and Thursday around noon. Another one I meet to fuck at a motel near his job on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays at 8 a.m. and he goes to work at 9 a.m. This particular horny bastard meet me after work for about 45 minutes to wine/dine with me two nites out of the week. He lies to his wife that he is on a diet and that he needs a very light dinner when he gets home. (he does this so his wife is not so suspicious). The out of town clients of mine I usually have to sleep with them over night and they paid me a lot of money because it is over night and it takes up a lot of my time. Sometimes I am amaze how I can manage to make this all work. There are times I have to make excuses when I cannot be fucking these guys. I had a Hysterectomy so I am able to work the whole month with no down time. With the younger men I can just meet and suck their dicks inside their parked vehicle if they are just too busy that day to do intercourse. Now you wonder why so many men are having super dark tints on their vehicles.
If you like sex and have money, this is the site for it.
The only thing I cannot do is travel with these men due to having to be in town for my other clients. Maybe when I am older I get less clients, then I can join MissTravel.com and be a whore on the go.
Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! None of my clients know I am fucking so many other guys. I lie like most whores on this site saying I am all new to this . Women can do this if you sign up for new accounts when you loose a client and lied to the next new client you are new at being an online prostitute. Playing innocent and new to being a prostitute is appealing to some men.
Jolie says
Hi.. I saw your review and was so interesting everything you said.
We have so much info to exchange about it… What’s your email?
Mine: loiratotosinha2008@hotmail.com
Hope hear from you!!!
Johnny says
This is not a companion or dating site, it is a site for men looking for sex, or else why would men come to this site and not many of those other regular dating sites. They are men that just want sex and 90% of he women of this sites are prostitutes. Some are career prostitutes and maybe about 40% are parttime prostitutes (students and people that have full time jobs that cannot make ends meet) These women cannot be called mistresses because a mistress is a women that spend time with one men and not as many as they can fit into their schedule to make as much money as possible. Many of these prostitutes are sleeping with multiple guys. The old ugly guys are paying top dollars because they are too ugly and they know it. So they paid these sluts bunch of money to s*ck and F*ck their dicks .
Over 40% of these men are married guys that has no morals and are bastards with kids that they don’t even paid their bills and spent all the money are these worthless whores.
Women are these MissTravel.com (Miss traveling prostitutes) and SeekingArrrangement.com are scammers. They will agree to an agreement and break all the rules and I heard they don’t even want to have sex with these older men. They make up excuses like they aren’t feeling well, or they have long periods. Pretty much many of them don’t want to have sex and just take the guys money. Most guys on this site only put up with theses whores for max of a few months and before they dump these worthless sluts , they already find another replacement.
Many of these prositutes on these sites are looking for rich guys to marry them. Get real. How many rich guy wants to many slut that so many D*ck gone up their v*gina and everywhere else. Rich men want to good girl type and F*ck these whores for fun and dump them whenever they get tire of them. This is not a dating site , but a paid for s*x site. So if you women thinking that rich men will marry you, think again. They are on this site because they either have high sex drives, or/and have a need to experiment or play out their fantasies and either their girlfriends or Wives aren’t willing to do so, and they come on this site to paid for whores to do that for them. Very few cases that the men on these sites will leave their wives for the sluts. Even if they do, the relationship usually don’t last because a whore is a whore and they will have a need to contiinue to be a whore. The paid is good, so many women on these sites also lied about their ages. The only time you catch the iies is you see their driver’s license, passports if you travel with them out of country, etc. Many have fake boobs and are prostitutes even though the site have a disclaimer for no prostitutes allow. This is just to protect the site from lawsuit by the United States government. Prostitution is illegal. Prostitutes are criminals and so are the Johns. There are less than 10% of descent women on this site that are honest and these less than 10% cannot make ends meet due to divorces, etc. Most are whores and aren’t worth your time
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definitely, scariest place for young women. you can be easily raped or harmed, the most of males there are greedy liars , have ugly face and body, different mental disorders, awkward expectations and no cash. I thought I’ve seen a lot in my life, but this site is a high-concentrated s**
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Sorry – but I call bulls**t. It’s as safe as you want it to be. The thing is, accept some personal responsibility. Get a Google Voice or Hushmail number so you don’t give out your real number. Don’t post pics online that are easy to Google so someone finds your Facebook, Twitter and other social media accounts and figures out your real name. You’d be surprised at how often that happens.
As to you looking “veeeery nice”, looks aren’t everything. How you carry yourself, and present yourself to someone looking to have you as a companion means a lot. Have a friend you trust make sure your profile communicates eloquently and presents yourself in a good light. Case in point, but I think your note above could use a little grammar checking as well 🙂
Yes there are scammers, liars and freaks of nature on there. Same as any of the other dating sites. I could also say the same for some of the liars, scammers and freaks of nature that have sat across from me over a coffee. You’d be surprised how many times they have attempted to play me for money – but it doesn’t work. I simply find the attempts humorous and then I just block them. It cost me a little in the beginning but I eventually learned.
Approach it with the right attitude and you might become pleasantly surprised… Or not. I tend to live by the saying, “You’ll see it when you believe it”… Not the other way around 🙂
Spirit_Greywolf
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I don’t know where you live, vezdeuyebki, but in the DC area where I live there are plenty of normal, great guys (like me :). You just have to search for them and pick and choose. I always offer a dinner date at the start, which ensures we get a long conversation and can discuss “the arrangement”. I also like to text the girl several days before the date, to see if she has a sense of humor, seems honest, and can hold a good conversation. You might want to do the same – should help weed out the bad guys. There are good and bad people in every walk of life – it’s just a numbers game to find the real gentleman, or even a diamond in the rough.
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Holly says
This site is full of men looking for cheap escorts and women out to scam desperate men. I met a guy name kevin from D.C he is 37 and his profile talks about him being a big time contractor. When I met him he had on a cheap suit and kept talking about how much money he had. I was uncomfortable because I could see through his bull. At the end of the night he offered me 100 bucks to sleep with me and I refused so he raped me. I’ve been calling seeking arrangements for 4 months trying to get his page removed to protect other girls but his profile is still active and women are still at risk of that troll.
beki says
Hi Holly. I am wondering if it is the same Kevin that I met. I met a guy named Kevin on a BBW dating sight who says he’s an attorney. He seems really weird and unreasonable.
Katie Mcfly says
I ran in to Attorney Kevin as well. He told me we had sex when I was 18 and that he already had my phone number. I was confused because I could not remember him and was in a relationship at the time where I did not cheat on my man. But he mentioned things that were true. He wanted me to drive two hours to a scary place rather than meet at his office half mile away from my house. I refused. Then had to have surgery. He called to wish me safe surgery, then called after, I thought that was very nice. Then he agreed to meet me for lunch at a nice place close to my house. He stood me up, I called him and he laughed at me and just said the most horrendous things to me that I’ve never herd anyone ever say to me, especially someone I’d never met. Worst thing he said he was worth $100 million but complained that the place I picked for lunch had $1000 salads which they don’t, most expensive thing on the menu is steak for $50.
Johnny says
This site isn’t cheap It costed most men more money than escorts. Many of these women are escorts/prostitutes and do it for a living . Some of these women sleep with very old guys and these old guys just want s*x once a week and they get pay alot of money to suck their dicks and f*ck them . Old guys that cannot get it hard takes sex pills.
I knew of a middle age women f*cking old guys for a living . She at first lied to me that she only do 2 and I am the youngest being close to her age, then I found out she was doing a total of 5 guys. All these old guys are married men with money to give her. She calls herself a mistress, but she is a career prostitute. Many of these women of the site lie about their ages. Some women had plenty of plastic surgery and also touch up jobs using facial fillers and botox to maintain looking young. I wonder what happen when they no longer can afford to maintain their looks because business is so competitive on this site and their number of clients drop and their fake faces fall apart??? Yuk!!!!!
Many women have fake boobs and many had plastic surgery (nose jobs, eyelids jobs, etc.)
Don’t forget that you are not exclusive to anyone of these prostitutes . They can give you STD/HIV/AIds, herpes. Herpes can be dormant on the affected person for up to 30 years. Yuk!!!!
Are you guys willing to ruin your marriage over these worthless sluts??????
Spirit Greywolf says
After having been on SA for a couple of years, I can say without a doubt the “haters” are doing something seriously wrong.
I put up a meaningful and honest profile, am up-front about my marital status and what I am looking for and above all – I treat every woman I encounter with respect. Of course there are scammers, flakes, abusers and the like on there – but use a little common sense. People aren’t going to throw themselves at you just because you have a profile.
You have to learn to write respectfully, have a sense of humor, paint a picture in a woman’s mind with eloquent words the speak to her mind, to her soul. Tease her intellect, treat her like a human being and not some chattel that you are looking to purchase – and you’d be surprised how often you have to turn women down.
It also means don’t be a pushover, don’t be scammed. Use common sense. If a woman hits you up immediately because she’s about to be evicted or car is about to be re-possessed – RUN! You don’t need the drama. Be choosy about what life choices she’s made. If she’s in school and trying to make something of herself – run with it! Seek out profiles of women who know how to communicate, are looking to have something a little more meaningful than empty sex and have a sense of humor. NO woman (or at least real women I know) want to be thought of as a hooker or whore – so don’t expect their profile to come across as wanting to get naked and bang you like a cheap gong.
Also as painful as it sounds – just TELL THE TRUTH! Post real pictures – even if you’re not proud of them. If necessary be self-deprecating in the profile if only to say “Look! I’m being honest!”. Dont try and hide behind pics of you a thousand feet away taken in the dark, or nothing but half of your face showing. Be real. If you need to be funny and tape a picture of a six-pack of beer to your stomach while you smile about having a six-pack. Okay – maybe that’s a little far but you get the gist. No high-school pictures (well, unless you just graduated a year ago) lol
Above all – just be yourself. You’ll find someone (or many someones) that you can click with and have fun with. Just enter in to it with an open mind and kind soul and you’ll find what you’re looking for.
Go for the coffee date at Starbucks. It’s 5 minutes and no real time commitment. You’ll know in about 10 minutes if there is any chemistry and if so – pursue it later.
It’s NOT rocket science. And stop blaming a website for your inability to meet someone nice. If everyone you meet is screwing you, maybe you are the one that needs to do a little introspection?
The Wolf.
Kristl says
Hey Spirit Graywolf. I just wanted to let you know your review was very helpful. My best friend is new on here and I was a leery of the site so I decided to read up about it! Thank you! Also I told her to look you up so she could read your profile and you hers but we can’t search you by name? Would you be interested? And if so how do I send you her profile without it being on here… Confidential?
Spirit Greywolf says
Just look for Spirit_Greywolf 🙂
Spirit Greywolf says
Someone called “Sassysweetnsmart” (you know who you are!) from Minneapolis had me THIS close to going outside of my “I don’t date someone across the country” – but then she disappeared 🙁
She seemed rather amazing…
Hey “M”… Come back. For you I would most definitely reconsider! 🙂
As to my reviews – they still stand. It’s an awesome site – and you get out of it what you put into it. Just like life in general…
Spirit_Greywolf
MikeW123 says
I’ve been a member for a while, and actually met a couple of really great people on SA. However, I was recently nearly scammed. A new member (just joined) by the handle of Sammie6 in Santa Cruz. She sent several emails that were talking me up and promising all sorts of hot stuff. But when the rubber met the road she changed her tune really fast, and started contradicting herself and not making a whole lot of sense. Long story short, both sides need to be careful out there. Girls can get taken advantage of or worse. And guys can too. Watch out for Sammie6, she’s bad news.
Brandon says
This site is a joke. Be careful. All the women you meet on there are either prostitutes or those who want free cash just by talking with you. You could hire a psychologist at a cheaper rate if you need someone to talk to or a counsellor.
All the men are sex addicts or old losers who can’t get laid. If you are successful and good looking, you don’t sign up for such a site. You can get a girl you want wherever you want. If you are balding fat and short but have cash, you think you can buy a hot chick. If you are a smart, hot and successful girl, you would never sign up for such a site. It’s simple. Men want sex and women want cash on that site. Period. Yes it is possible that you can meet a great person but the odds are its slimer than wanting to meet someone vegetaerian at a steak restaurant. You expect to meet someone who likes red meat in a meat restaurant. You don’t ask for sushi at McDonald’s and you don’t ask for fries at Nobu.
The owner of the site Brandon wade or something, he is a small Chinese guy who claims to have a degree from MIT, is an angry guy because tall blond girls never gave him a chance. It is sad that someone who can’t handle rejections tunrWatch some of his interviews on youtube. You
will laugh your ass off. Good luck
Spirit Greywolf says
Brandon, I hate to break it to ya but you’re doing something very wrong 🙂
The odds of meeting someone you like on that site really aren’t all that slim. If you approach it with the right attitude anything is possible. You play the numbers on that site just like any other. Just be careful about who you approach, don’t get played – and most of all – just be honest and don’t be a “player” since a lot of quality women who ARE on that site will see right through your BS.
Life is what you make it, bro… It’s just that simple when you boil it all down…
The Wolf
brian griffin says
“If you are balding fat and short but have cash” – Wow you have me down to a tee…
Larry says
I have been a member of SA for over a year, and during that time managed to have only one successful relationship. When it ended, I began looking again and was contacted by Ashleigh Verma (her real name) who subsequently conned me into giving her $1,600 and then disappeared. She then deactivated her account on SA and also took down her Facebook page. I would caution anyone that ever sees her name or photo (I copied them before she took down her Facebook page and can share them with you) to ignore her. She lives in Leesburg, Virginia. Her email is ashleighverma26 at hotmail.
Larry
Thora says
So many are absolute time wasters, they”ll talk about all the money they have yet arent willing to spend a dime on you unless you have unprotected sex. Ofcourse there are the very few men on here that are legitimate but majority are not. In addition, the expectations the users have are absolutely ridiculous, ” must be a super model, with an ivy league degree, and doesnt just care about my wealth” excuse yourself such a woman wouldnt think about siging up for sa or a sugar daddy site. Be realistic men, you will not get a 9/10 if you arent a 9/10 yourself. 95% of the reason women join is due to needing financial assistance, so if you cant be of assistance, kindly f*** off and get off the site.
Joshua Ebert says
Thora,
Welcome to the real world where men with means (whether or not they freely throw it at you is irrelevant) who are 6’s, date women who are 9’s ALL the time!!!. You must not get out of the house a lot in cities like LA or Miami. Your comment about women who are 9’s only dating guys who are 9’s is complete BS and should have become clear in your 20’s unless you still want the broke bartender / trainer type?
This is not a comment about that site but more of a fact in the US which Thora doesn’t understand. The majority of couples with an average looking successful guy and very attractive girl are already the result of a gold digging woman who is smart enough not to advertise that fact. The fact that anyone can’t comprehend the hot girl, wealthy guy relationship is beyond me. Especially because many hot chicks don’t chase looks…….they chase their perception of $$$$$ (athletes etc).
So to clarify men who are not 9/10 get women who are 9/10’s quite a bit and if you can’t see that in everyday life you must not be paying attention.
Tor says
Benefactors who can afford even a moderate compensation for their sugar babies don’t grow on trees. Moderate is defined as about $60,000 per year or $5000 per month. If you are single and make about $250,000 per year that is a third of your pay after taxes and that doesn’t even take into consideration possible payroll or state income taxes. What percentage of single people, men or women, make over $250,000? Very few. Certianly less then 2%. They should be picky and a little demanding, if they are not they’re stupid. It’s called being careful with your money.
Ginger says
I am a cam model. Single mom 36. I clean up nice. Another cam model said she does SA on the side. Told me to check it out. I did. I found this site too. This is exactly what I needed to know. There is no way I would try that site out. Being a cam model on your own and not working for a studio you can make really good money. I also have a full time job so only do the cam thing 10 hours a week. When they say $300 to $1000 I make that easy in a few hours. $200 to $250 per hour skype shows and I don’t have to touch or fuck anybody except myself on cam. If you are smart and have your own small studio set up in your garage you can make some easy money. Don’t sell yourself out girls. You have to be pretty and sweet not nasty. Let me know if you want to know how and I will tell you. Good luck!
Mond says
How can I start? What is the name of the website you model for? How is it?
ivonne says
How can I do the cam model? it sounds much better than what im doing.
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Hi would like to know how and also if it’s confidenci.
trisha says
How can we do this…
Elizabeth says
Ginger,
Please personally email me!! I am a student and just deleted my SA Profile I got so disgusted with two types I encountered. 1) Acts nice, polite etc. until it takes over a week or two for me to be comfortable meeting them and it would only be in a busy populated restaurant or area. 2) Just the straight “Out-for-Sex” guys with no brakes or respect.
Anyway, I’m currently living with my parent while I’m finishing school so I would do it when their at work as well as keep putting out resumes.
I would GREATLY appreciate some of your advice!!!!
Thank you!!
Sincerely,
E
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Liyah says
How could I be a cam model?
The truth says
Hoes gonna stay hoes till when they are dying with a d*ck in thier mouth to pay for the funeral service. I spent two hours reading reviews about this website and I am officially done with women. No wonder why all the pretty young women are unavailable for the good guys anymore. They are busy whoring themselves online and for anyone with cash. No wonder why normal dating sites are full of fat ugly and old women and all guys are wasting thier time.
For your information. If you make easy thousnads of $$$ on cam sites, the people you do private show for them are recording you and making 10 thousands of yoi by selling your videos or puting it by themselves on porn site for millions to watch YOU naked fingering yourself and licking dildos. Lmao.
For all the suckers pathetic no life delusional princess money hungry asking about it, go ahead and Google cam sites. They are 100s. Be proud and show your vagina to your grandpa. He most likely watching those. Lmao.
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Rosie says
“Fuzakks” or James Dickey – 42 from Annandale is a waste of your time. Messaged & texted each other for a couple days. Everything went really well. I was open, honest and sweet to him. We discussed our schedules and it seemed like the real deal. Finally, we started discussing details on meeting for the first time. I always meet in a public setting for the first date. When I suggested our initial meeting, so we could finally sit down with each other, his response was, “:) do we need an initial meeting? Can we just start?” Disgusting! I reply with complete honesty. I need an initial meeting to determine if there is a connection between us. Let alone for my SAFETY!!! We need to atleast get along with each other if we plan on seeing each other once a week. I don’t want an arrangement based on sex, because I need something reliable, stable and long-term. Then he has the audacity to say if he wanted just sex, he’d call an escort, that he was “losing interest” & good luck on my search. Stay away from this guy. He’s clearly looking for just sex, but is too much of a coward to admit it.
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brian griffin says
Wow lot’s of first dates and no arrangement. Is that telling you something?
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Njers says
Most of the reviews are accurate – this site is a joke!
I joined a year ago, and since then I’ve met and spent time with two men who were REAL SD’s, and one of them I’m still friends with.
There are 3 types of men on this site: Real SD’s, wealthy men who could be SD’s but are too cheap, and men who just want an escort, but are too cheap or crazy to see an escort. The latter two are the most common.
A year ago, this site was good. I’ve heard it was even better years ago. Brandon, the CEO, choosing to advertise it in a way that markets to men with a few hundred dollars of disposable income, was a bad move. While I’ve had amazing experiences, I’ve been lowballed, taken advantage of, and harassed. The verification process means nothing, as one member who was verified was found out to be a drug trafficker just by searching his email and phone number.
Ladies, go to upscale places and meet REAL MEN/REAL SD. Men, do the same, or just hire a damn matchmaker.
Ash says
To be honest. I was on the site for a couple of years, met only a few people as I was verrrrry picky. I was concerned about safety, authenticity and compatibility. I was genuily looking for someone I had fun with, who could essentially take me out, spoil me and maybe help me out financially. I met a couple strange men, some super nice ones who were simply bored, not wanting full commitment but we’re excited about going out and dating someone new, they preferred younger, so what- I prefer older lol. Eventually I actually met someone for drinks one night and we spent hours laughing and having a blast. I got home , nothing was expected I was simple dropped off with a hug. Over time we spent more and more time together, went out had fun, and in fact started to become really interested in over another. It was months before we slept together. Neither of us have accounts anymore. And are in a committed relationship. He’s sexy smart hilarious and treats me like gold. Say what you will, maybe I camd out of the experience With something entirely different then I had planned. But im happy I did. I think you may get out of it what you put in in some ways. Who’s to judge, be safe, do your best to filter out whatever it is your not looking for and maybe you’ll find what you want, maybe you want. Just like any other dating site.
Rae says
I decided right after I signed up that I wanted to be deleted…I was told I would have to wait two weeks before I could do that. I waited two weeks and the link I’m supposed to go to to delete my profile, isn’t there. I’ve emailed twice asking to be removed…but got no reply. I think they keep you on ‘file’ forever so that it will appear that there are more active members than there really is. I think this site is a scam as do several reviewers above. If you ever join remember it is FOREVER because there is no way you can ever delete your profile.
Brandon says
This site is a joke. Be careful. All the women you meet on there are either prostitutes or those who want free cash just by talking with you. You could hire a psychologist at a cheaper rate if you need someone to talk to or a counsellor.
All the men are sex addicts or old losers who can’t get laid. If you are successful and good looking, you don’t sign up for such a site. You can get a girl you want wherever you want. If you are balding fat and short but have cash, you think you can buy a hot chick. If you are a smart, hot and successful girl, you would never sign up for such a site. It’s simple. Men want sex and women want cash on that site. Period. Yes it is possible that you can meet a great person but the odds are its slimer than wanting to meet someone vegetaerian at a steak restaurant. You expect to meet someone who likes red meat in a meat restaurant. You don’t ask for sushi at McDonald’s and you don’t ask for fries at Nobu.
Abbs says
Most every guy has a chip on his shoulder and turns into a bumbling BRAT as soon as you aren’t this submissive dog just peeing all over his leg at the promise of a Walmart gift card. It’s disgusting.
These are the ones that got rich by trust funds, and being cheap and greedy. EVERY guy will promise you the world, and never deliver. They say they don’t like escorts do they feel better but they’re ALL just looking for a quick random fuck. Less mileage. They think they DESERVE us and want us to be their personal escorts. They all are guys that can’t pass a true escorts screening process so they go there looking for below market Coochie, and women that are scared of being called escorts.
If you report a guy on the site you get deleted. Your entire IP address. This will never end. I’ve had way better luck on OKC and even AshMad than on this legal prostitution site.
Brandon says
It is true. You hit the nail on the head
Michelle says
Terrible site. You can’t talk to the admin for a reason. The guys just want a cheap prostitute or are looking to rape you in my opinion. BE CAREFUL. I posted on my site that I was not looking for cash for sex and the site restricted my page for “being disrespectful towards other users”. Because saying you’re not a prostitute is disrespectful b/c that’s the purpose of the site. A LOT of fake people and scammers looking to promise you cash and then have sex with you. If it sounds too good to be true trust your instinct. The first guy who, as soon as we exchanged numbers, messaged me demanded naked pictures immediately for an $1000 allowance which I’m sure was a lie. When I politely refused he made rude comments. I had to block him. The second guy tried to lure me to his condo for $300 “just to hang out” but refused to meet anywhere else. I am SURE he would have tried to hurt me he refused to listen to reason or respect my need for security. Garbage. The site also wants to charge the hell out of you for their “background checks” and crappy service. The whole thing is a scam don’t be fooled. Truely great and gentelmanly sugar daddies would not use this site or are at least EXTREMELY rare. Good luck. A lot of rapes and robberies are reported from this site.
brian griffin says
No cash for sex? Was it sex for free? Didn’t think so, so nothing for cash?
Guy’s will not give you cash for free, and of course he wanted to make sure those boobs weren’t dried up after 10 kids…
I wouldn’t want to be seen in public with a tramp, my apartment only would be fine too 🙂
Chloe says
I am using this site around Toronto area. Most, I would say 99.5%, of the guys on there, are LOOKING FOR BELOW-THE-MARKET PRICE ESCORTS, rather than actual sugarbabies, they would offer you 200-400 bucks to have dinner and “fun” with them. some are even cheaper as to say on their profile if you expect an allowance, do not message them
brian griffin says
What’s the going rate for an escort? Don’t escort have to f*ck and s*ck lot’s of strangers to get that rate?
Count yourself lucky your are not cleaning toilets!
sugar baby says
Ok, i have only been a member on this website for a short amount of time HOWEVER…. These men seem to have RIDICULOUS standards of what they are looking for! (at least the real one on there)
“You must be a Caucasian woman 6ft (sorry 120 lb only) that i can parade around at parties must be a non smoker and available for weekends ONLY between the ages of 18 and 21”
Yeah pretty much these guys are ridiculous and obviously have no experience dating ANY one of ANY sort regardless of you money no one will respect a man or a woman like that. men have even posted things saying if they are of a certain race to not message them. haha SO ridiculous! This isnt a garden of women if there were a such place you probably wouldnt be allowed in it! haha
I will say i believe there are some men on here that are legit but they seem to be interested in small tall white women and i cant change my race or height so if i can accept my self and not judge them solely based on a preference i would think i would attain the same amount of respect. no wonder they are escort on here.
There seems to be no way to contact the website or any of their sister sites which irritates me because they seem to have more in-depth dating tools which i would like to try but since asking around this site seems to be a scam.
Casey says
My comment of this despicable site keeps being deleted. Was very in depth. This site is a safe haven for damn rapists.
Casey says
This website is a scam! They have the audacity to complain about escorts, but that’s all there is on the site. All the guys claim that they are refined, respectful, I have something to offer, attractive, Rich… They are not. Half of them lease their cars, and are housesitting for their bosses. There are so many sites dedicated to exposing seekingarrangement. I too have been raped by a member of the site whose intentions were not nearly as messages would seem. They do nothing!!! Police reports, screenshots, etc. and nothing happens.
In short, this horrific site is just a playground for the losers that couldn’t pass an escorts verification process, or don’t want to pay the money at all. Nearly every guy will seem extremely respectable, and then start calling you every derogatory name under the book as soon as you’re not sending them spread Eagle photos, and will not agree to be contractually unwillingly raped.
Graydon C. says
The advertised 8 to 1 ratio of females to males and the claimed 10-1 ratio of the same is false and misleading. I offer Phoenix Arizona as an example If you log on and search within 50 miles, 5225 females are listed. This includes all women who have EVER signed up for SA. The active number, however, (those active in the last couple weeks) is actually 845. The male number shows 1106 (which would in theory be a 5 to 1 ratio at best. However, 476 males are active by the above definition. The real ratio: 1.8 women to 1 man. If you have lots of $$ this works OK and you probably are 3 or 4 women to a man. For those of us with middle class $$, there isn’t a prayer-might as well go on match.com
soursugar says
Be careful gentlemen. I am being extorted/blackmailed by a girl from this site. After much investigation, I have come to realize that this is very common. I would hazard a guess that a large percentage of married men will face the same thing. Many (if not most) of the girls on this site manipulate men very well. They will make you think nothing could go wrong and that your secretes are safe, but as soon as they don’t get what you want, you are screwed. If I had to guess, I would say that 20% or more of the girls on this site would use blackmail. So if you meet 5 girls, odds are that one will blackmail you. I have emailed SA about the problem, but they ignored me. They clearly don’t care about women who are abused by bad men or men who are swindled by bad women. If any men are or have faced the same thing, please post it to this blog and anywhere else you can. Do not be ashamed and do not ever give into the blackmail. The FBI will investigate and has in my case. They are going to arrest her soon I believe.
Brooke says
I know there are many scammers out there on this website as are on others. I got on it as a joke in the summer of 2012 and remember it was only a joke between a friend and I. There were no expectations or intentions form the website. I never thought I would actually meet someone face to face. There were some men that were highly inapropriate in their messages to me but i ignored them. I I didn’t have much intimacy experience prior to that summer (3 partners only), so I didn’t know what I wanted or if I wanted anything. Well this one guy contacted me and he was super nice and super sweet. A bit older but I like older guys and we decided we should meet face to face. So we did. It was a bit awkward at first because I had a friend accompany me and she didn’t know about him but we continued to text and call each other. It is now 2014 and can say that we are still together and going strong. I was in school and still am, I quit my job 1month after we met, he paid for all my school and still is and let’s say my account looks healthy as well. He cooks for me and treats me with the utmost respect.
So now I have had my 4th intimate partner, which goes to show that good things can come out of a joke and that if you really want something, be patient, don’t allow any guy to disrespect you and if you feel a real connection go for it. But there is a difference between going with every guy that contacts you and pays you $$$ for a night in a hotel and meeting a partner that is a best friend and someone you can trust and he still helps you out significantly.
There are probably more bad and dishonest people on any website than are good but your job is to be careful and weed out the bad ones.
Good luck.
Rita says
On this side 89% man who can’t or don’t want to pay full price for Escort! They are not real SD! Almost everyone want having unprotected sex for couple or less $ with young girls. I met in person more then 35 men and all wanted the same( they are not saying it in massages) , it just waist of my time. I am not looking for it. Really guys?! This is so nasty, horrible how and what you doing there! Obviously you change girls like gloves and girls do the same! I wish for all of you stay healthy and feel for you so sorry!
Andrew says
A bit of everything. This is mostly a front-end between you and “anyone” looking for money (your money).
SA do not filter their members (they do have an optional verification process through), and you can meet good people like real bad one. Their interface is basic. Customer service is fast but they don’t have anything great as suggestions (to “block member” kind of replies).
I would suggest you don’t show up your true colors at all before being sure with whom you’re dealing with.
Money is what matters here. Your feelings not a lot (if any).
Mike Law says
Almost a complete scam (there are apparently a few legit members who got sucked in by the advertising and if the site were honest if could presumably be a niche site that fills a need — the problem for the most part it is not honest). They approve profiles and then you find women who are really in effect just prostitutes, advertising the amount and the hotel room charge. In effect, this is a front often for call girls, which is not what I signed up for. I have no problem dating a woman and paying for things, — the more intimate the more the gifts can be, analogous to real life off the web. But they seem to have fake members, from my experience, who are there merely to give the site a seeming critical mass. When I contested my charge with VISA, they immediately retracted the charge, obviously hearing of many complaints. Now I’m getting bothered at home by their debt-collection service. I’ll call the police/district attorney if it continues. They should be thrown in jail for fronting prostitution illegally. If I could give 1/4th of a star or a negative star, I would.
Brian DeLauro says
The site is unethical from the get-go. It lures you with the offer of a free membership, but once you register, you find you need to pay in order to access your messages. I signed up for a month, and two weeks into it was harassed by a nutjob. I wrote the site administrator to say that I wouldn’t renew if he weren’t banned. I was told to block him, but I said that my point was that he’d harass OTHERS. They obviously didn’t care, since I heard nothing back. When it was time to renew, I didn’t but continued to get messages on my e-mail screenname, the content of which I couldn’t access as a non-member. I asked to be removed from their membership list, since all these sugar babies were writing me on the false assumption that their messages were being read. No reply. I then wrote to the owner, Brandon, on Facebook, who ignored me. In other words, you’ll get email messages forever if you don’t renew for what you don’t even want. And they claim that they background-verify, but they don’t.
Petite cutie says
Just month and a half on this site in Palm Beach , FL aria. Single mom who straggling paying my bills from pay check to pay check, originally from different country. It’s not that easy to find a job in my aria to cover even my bills and minimum life stile but I am working thanks god!!!!
So sexy, beautiful, bachelor degree and in my 30th. Yes a lot young girl there who probably fine with what I’m not !!!! Wow! I was shocking how flakes and fakes SD thinking about women and how chip they are!!! They even don’t want you pamper and invite to a restaurant to have a drink with you saying what they need and how!!!! During this time I got a a lot of mails most only from who wants sex one time and pay couples hundreds for unprotected sex!!!I am not looking to having like this kind of arrangement ! Other type were trying to fooling you around and saying we’re real , so generous , real SD ,paying monthly allowance , or driving you on streets and shows from car window looks like it’s them houses and everything could be yours!!! Haha. O my goodness , really?! Girls I don’t believe and you don’t , please!!!! Others SD who ask your email, then texting for weeks,asked more naked pictures, address looks like for send you flowers or some present first then never contact you back , probably using it for different purposes .On my experience only was Man who can’t pay much more to real pros… Girl stay who you are !!! I am know what I want and looking for and I am totally positive one day on my street will be holiday!!!!
Unfortunately I met Larry Ellison on SeekingArrangement, but he’s a lying user abuser says
99% of guys here will waste so much of your time, give you cheap offers for unpleasant/unsafe sex, lie to you, cheapen you, use you if they can, including Larry Ellison who is their supposed legit member. Yes even a supposed well-known billionaire takes advantage of girls. If Larry Ellison talks to you, please be aware he is a smooth a liar, is online fooling new girls everyday. Don’t believe him no matter how convincing he seems
Girls you can’t be so desperate to waste your life and sanity on SA. Please don’t go so low.
Brooke. says
Do not go out or date HowardHughes or NeilYoung he is a liar and a cheater. He is actually 47 years old. He has nowhere near the amount of money he put on his profile. He actually has a live in girlfriend . What a piece of shit. Most of the guys on this site are married.
Jet says
DO NOT TALK TO DADDY MARCUS FROM HOUSTON. Short story met on the site went on a date. He was real nice and we text and send pictures back and forth for a week. Met up at hotel and decided on price (1700 a month). Didn’t take cash that night because I didn’t want to make it awkward. We had sex then chatted back and forth for another week and half. Felt comfortable for him to come to my place. He brought wine and flowers but no cash. Said we would meet up on Monday which was two days later. Had sex chatted and texted again for 2 days then no reply to text after 3 days. Called and phone was off then waited 2 days and called again and phone rang but he never answered. He’s black as tar and looks like a ugly monkey. Don’t waste your time like I did. Tried being nice and got fucked literally and figuratively. Get your money up front even if it feels funny.
Chrissy says
If your in the dfw area please be on the lookout for cowboyman , it says he’s 44 and lives in weatherford. He says he does rodeo and some kind of finance. They guy totally lied. I met up with him and he looked like he was in his late 50s (no big deal) we had a great night and in the morning he left and never answered the phone. He was supposed to give me 1000k. He is totally fraudulent. Be on the lookout. He will also try to sleep with you without protection. Ladies please don’t do it
GenuineFemale says
I find these reviews a little shocking. I for one am a very “Normal” girl and I feel that my profile states just that. While some of the men here want to point the figures at the girls/women and make it like we are flakey, brainless, incompetent idiots, and professionals, maybe they should stop pretending to be “Real, successful, clean, chilverous gentleman”. I have changed my profile several times and I will tell you this, when I act like a women who has passion and desire for a wild night out and a good time with NSA I get messages by the dozen. But when I make my profile sound like I am a street smart, book smart, beautiful young lady looking for something more meaningful, I dont get many messages. With that said, I have learned that most people on this site really dont know what they want. I could honestly write a book on my experiences. Some good, some great, and some bad. But isnt that part of dating anyway? You just have to know what you want going in and be firm about it. Dont settle. It might take time to find exactly what pleases all your senses, but if your true to yourself and what you want, you will get it eventually. Just dont settle. And dont lie on your profile about anything, because that wont help you find the happiness your seeking. Or should I say “the arrangement your seeking” Slow your role!!! Men, stop thinking all about sex. Ladies stop thinking about the bank account. Sit back and really think of what you want out this site. Then sit back and be patient. Patience is the key. Think of what this site is about. Successful men beautiful women….Girls are tired of dead beat loser boys and men are tired of spoiled winney brats…its all really simple. So, think of what you want then pick a website that best suits your needs and desires. I mean really there is site for everyone even those with dirty little fetishes. God bless and good luck! 😉
Dave says
As I was browsing through the site, all I saw were women who expected large amounts of money from men. And the thing is some of those women do not want any sexual contact. This is puzzling to me. Why would a guy agree to an arrangement like this when there is no sexual contact. Ladies, I mean come on. Some of these women think the men on the site are just happy a younger woman talks to them, so they are willing to spend on them. Remember, beneficial agreement.
sugargirl123 says
LADIES! Do not talk to Jack at “lookingtohelp” in culver city. He is a HUGE liar, and seriously broke, and is using this site to only sleep around. He’s a fake. Be careful.
D says
LADIES WATCH OUT FOR RAPIST AND SCAMMERS!!!
I personally was raped by a guy who goes by the name of Joe Chien (30/ Asian/ Says he lives in Brooklyn, NY) and stalked and harassed from the site and haven’t any sort of goodluck from the site. –
Although I received hundreds if messages I was very picky in who I saw and only went on probably 3/4 dates out of those hundreds of messages. After that horrifying experience I have officially given SA A long term break…
Trev says
Theres the good, the bad, and the ugly. Out of every 20 dates.. Maybe 1 or 2 are sane. Most of them are escorts role playing the normal girl role or “disturbed” girls with family issues, ex bf issues, health issues, personality disorders.
Chances of finding a normal college hot girl? Lesa than 2%
Joshua Ebert says
Trev,
I’m not sure how anyone could give your comment a negative review since. A bit of “crazy” is par for the course when it comes to women in the dating world
Mike Law says
SA is a part legit, perhaps, but seeming most scam: Employees posing as enthusiastic takers, but with minimal replies, then not showing up during arranged dates. The motive, I guess, is to drive people to pay for the Verification Feature. They can go screw themselves. I quit after 10 days. Plus what a horrible email system.
Sugarbabe1 says
Be careful with MOBY and MAGIC if you are in Montreal. The first idiot met with me and at first everything was ok. When was time for sex, I went to take a condom and he started argue with me and said he forgot to tell me but he wanted unprotected sex etc .. A REAL ASSHOLE!! I left and block his number etc, I was really shocked! Magic was asking to pay me 100$ for few hours with him a week (ridiculous cheapo) and was asking me to shoot videos with him and lots of dirty things. Please avoid those guys they are not sugar daddys, they are searching escorts at a RIDICULOUS CHEAP PRICE to do really dirty things, but they will wait until you are in the bedroom to finally change the rules and think you gonna do it because you are stuck with them.
Alice says
PLEASE DO NOT SIGN UP.
MANY GIRLS HAVE BEEN SCAMMED AND RAPED…
laura says
Like anything on the internet there is a dark site to this. You have to be upfront to those who are looking for a prostitute but I met a really nice guy on there. True gentalmen and he ain’t bad to look at.
Sugargirl says
Bunch of creeps on there. They will act like they have a great deal to offer and then when it finally comes down to it, they’re like $500 a night. Hell no. I’ve had guys from the site give me up to $5000 a month for seeing them once a week, never settle for less if you are real! I will never accept less than $1500 for a weekend, the goal is to empower me, if I’m only receiving $3000 a month and you want me to constantly text and see you once a week you are literally wasting my time because I’m making about as much as a person who needs welfare. Take a walk men. You all are scum and what you ask of us women is far more valuable than what you offer us. You’re not paying for an escort, you are empowering a real woman. Stick to the ones who are older (50/60s) who were once married, those are by FAR the most normal. The best one I ever had was a politician. And if your man is not taking you to 5 star restaurants and hotels say fucking goodbye.
Admin edited comment on Sept 8, 2014: User reviews are not allowed to include defamatory mentions of personal daters as per our user review policy.
brian griffin says
You sound so pleasant…
Shindy says
How am I empowering you for giving you money? No human with worth money. 5000 for a weekend is stupid. They must be desperate. You are not a empowered woman just because you get money from men. A real woman works for what she wants she doesn’t need a desperate prick to empower her, The only thing that can empower you is yourself: your values and beliefs. The way you sound you aren’t worth the 25 cents in my shoe.
James says
I have had and am having a really lovely time with Seeking. I’m 40, and am having concurrent affairs with a really hot 18 year old, and a breathtakingly gorgeous 24 year old. Both of them very smart and ambitious girls. I’m a diamond member and verified, which means I’ll get about 30 messages a day, conservatively. There IS lots of riffraff to sort through, but you’ll know the genuine finds when you see them. Not a place to be if you aren’t wealthy, or if you don’t actually enjoy spoiling beautiful young women.
Scott says
It is impossible to rate this site without being on it for a while. There are hookers. There are scam artists. There are college girls who want to be paid for play. There are girls who want 3K per month to hold hands in public. And, there are some pretty cool women who got there by accident. If you are not a creep, post a picture, get the background check, and can do a basic analysis of the girl from her profile, you can have a lot of fun. I also live in a big city, so there is a lot of choice. I’ve been on the site a month and have met enough women of all types that I could probably quit and just stay in contact with them, but meeting the “new girl” is kind of addictive. There is a 10 to 1 ratio of girls to guys and only about 1 out of 10 guys posts a picture and gets the background check. So, if you do, you are chased, not the other way around!!! Be patient, be prepared to spend some money, and relax. And, never chat with a girl more than 50 miles away.
model says
SCAM !
DO NOT SIGN UP.
Dan says
One problem: Every girl on this site expect you to give them allowance of 3k-3k a month… Im not even talking about good looking one hahaha FOret it…Women have completely no idea what money represent..
Waste of time or money unless you settle for escorts …don t bother. You can find escort anywhere
mike rose says
was on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and “at least we’d meet in court”??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do – sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn’s for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and “you have a new message” email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.
Rockstar says
I have to completely disagree with your opinion of seeking arrangement . After spending almost 2 years on the site being a background verified member , all I found was woman using fake modeling pics . Scam artists trying to get you to western union them money and just numerous fake profiles . Don’t waste your time and money
Tom says
I found this site fascinating. As part of a trip I took to Europe, I did some stopovers for several days in the US.
For attractive older men (I am probably an 8) with reasonable expectations this is a treat to be with young women. Call me pervie, but I genuinely like the late 20s-early 30s generation. Many are also quite respectful and accommodating, and my God economically this group has been screwed. I don’t think age was a dealbreaker as long as you bring something besides money to the table.
Miranda says
I’ve come at a point that I prefer spending time with older men than people of my own age. Seekingarrangement.com seemed like the perfect site for me to get in touch with more mature people who are (in many cases) interested in spending time with younger people. I’ve met a ton of interesting people through the site, and like the overall tone of voice most people have on this site. Men aren’t pushy, like to focus on the person behind a profile picture and are genuinely nice it seems.