In dating, there are no “safe zones”. Some say that the first date is the most crucial, and if you manage to not screw it up, then you can find yourself at the finish line. The truth is, the second, third, fourth, and every other date is just as important as the first one. In order to raise your chances, we decided to create a cheat sheet for you, detailing some hints to secure the next checkpoint in your relationship. We prepared enough material for men and women alike, because we feel that both of them need all the help they can get.
Ladies, if you had fun on the first date, be sure to drop some hints about how much you enjoyed it. This little encouragement will surely yield a second go. But don’t go overboard with the suggestions. The second place should be the true testament of what the guys can actually deliver. Let them choose the time, place and activity for the second date to see how well they fare on their own. When meeting, greet them with a hug or a cheeky peck on the face – it will break the ice right away. Don’t wear too much makeup and avoid revealing dresses as well. Your second date should raise the flirting amount a little bit, and aced ones should end with a kiss. It is okay if your reveal your personal side by sharing a bit more about yourself, but keep it on a mild level, no embarrassing or intimate detail should slip out. Also, lips sealed about the exes!
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Gentlemen, be sure to plan your second date well. This should be less formal and tense than the first one, because you already know a few things about the other person. You don’t need to buy a gift, instead offer her a ride. The activity and the location should be different as well. The emphasis should be on “having fun together” , so forget loud places, as well as cinemas, because they don’t allow pairs to concentrate on each other. Another key note is to bring up details the girl shared on the first date, because it indicates that you are a keen listener. Also, we recommend complimenting her on three different things (look, style, personality, taste etc.) at appropriate moments. You can also score by minding the language you use: instead of using a phrase such as “I want”, use “We should” instead. Oh, and no glancing gazes, look strictly into her eyes! Keep in mind that the purpose of the second date is to have fun together.